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Writer's pictureCatherine Oaks

The Temporary Nature of Pain: Practical Steps to Overcome Struggles

Life is full of cycles, and just as night turns into day, pain too will give way to relief. This simple truth is easy to lose sight of when we are caught in the storm. We might feel trapped, believing that our suffering is endless, but it's crucial to hold on to the knowledge that no feeling—whether joy or sorrow—lasts forever. The discomfort you feel now will fade, and better days will come. This understanding can be a powerful tool in facing life’s challenges, giving us the strength to endure and the courage to hope.


Pain, whether physical or emotional, can feel all-consuming. Anxiety, fear, and discomfort often come hand-in-hand with it, making it difficult to see past the moment. However, it’s crucial to remember that pain is only temporary. Like clouds that eventually clear to reveal the sun, the difficult feelings you're experiencing will pass. While enduring these tough times, there are practical steps you can take to ease your burden and help you move toward a brighter outlook.


  1. Get Outside and Connect with Nature: Nature has a calming effect on the mind and body. Take a walk in a park, sit by the water, or simply breathe in fresh air. The sights, sounds, and smells of the natural world will ground you and provide a soothing break from the intensity of pain.

  2. Practice Meditation and Deep Breathing: When anxiety and discomfort feel overwhelming, meditation will help center your thoughts. Focus on your breath, allowing each inhale and exhale to calm your nerves. Even just a few minutes of deep breathing will reduce stress and help you feel more in control.

  3. Visualize Positive Outcomes: Visualization is a powerful tool. Close your eyes and imagine a positive scenario, whether it’s a peaceful place, a goal you’ve achieved, or simply a moment where you feel happy and at ease. This practice will shift your mindset from focusing on pain to anticipating better things ahead.

  4. Reach Out and Socialize: When you're feeling low, it's easy to withdraw, but connecting with others will lift your spirits. Call a friend, meet someone for coffee, or spend time with family. Social interaction will remind you that you’re not alone and that support is available.

  5. Care for Your Pets: If you have pets, spend time with them. Animals have a unique way of offering comfort without words. Play with your dog, cuddle with your cat, or simply watch your pet’s carefree nature. Their presence will bring moments of joy and distraction from pain.

  6. Create Something from Scratch: Engage your mind and hands in creating something. It could be cooking a new recipe, drawing, writing, or building something small. The act of creating will redirect your focus from discomfort to accomplishment, no matter how simple the task.

  7. Move Your Body: Exercise, even gentle movement, releases endorphins—your body’s natural painkillers. Whether it’s a brisk walk, yoga, stretching, or dancing to your favorite song, physical activity reduces stress and improvesyour mood.

  8. Take Deep Breaths: Whenever you feel overwhelmed, pause and take a few deep breaths. Slowly inhale through your nose, hold for a moment, and then exhale through your mouth. Learn about the 4-7-8 breathing exercise. This simple act will calm your nervous system and create space between you and the pain.

  9. Detach from the Noise: In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in the constant stream of news, much of which is driven by fear, manipulation, and half-truths. The media thrives on amplifying anxiety. Now is the time to step back and disconnect from these corrupted channels that cloud your mind and spirit. Instead, look within and find peace. Use this time to reconnect with your inner self and focus on what truly matters—your well-being, your relationships, and your purpose.


Even in the toughest times, when it feels almost impossible to think positively, it’s important to keep faith in brighter outcomes. By focusing on small glimmers of hope and allowing ourselves to believe in the possibility of healing, we will shift our perspective. The act of visualizing positive outcomes is a lifeline that pulls us through our darkest moments. 

Remember that life, like the weather, is ever-changing. 


The storm may rage now, but it won’t last forever. The clouds will clear, and the sun will shine again. Hold on to that truth, and never lose faith in the brighter days ahead.


To your peace, always.


Catherine Oaks 

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